Kai Rose's friend troubles

Dear Daisy,

I have another problem:

My other best friend Paige,has got a boyfriend...she just pushes us away so se can be with him.we are both ten,so is he (Connor).he puts his arm around her,full tongue-and-lip kissing and all that...she's had hundreds of boyfriends (literally) and I just want her back,our funny,happy friend and the moody,bossy and boy side-tracked girl to go...

I think we should leave her for a few days,so she can realise how much she really needs us and she can then return to us when sense has been knocked into her!!!

Please help us as I'm fearing me and all my other friends are going to lose her!

Love,Kai




Dear Kai,

I'm so sorry your BFF is ignoring you. She isn't doing it on purpose but I can REALLY see why your upset. I don't think ignoring her is the answer. Things like that usually backfire in a situation like this. You could try to talk to her and whatever you do,don't diss her BF ( or Say something bad about him) This will probably cause her to be mad. You could invite her over and talk to her or she will even realize she misses hanging out with you. ( if prefered, invite your other friends too of course! Have a party or sleepover! ) You can take a trip to the mall together too. Since she has a new person in her life she probably wants to hang with them. She will come to her senses soon. Some boys are temporary but friends are forever!

Best of luck,
Daisy

Kai Rose's creepy noises at night

Dear Daisy,

Hi!I need help with something:please don't laugh:
Every night I hearthings downstairs and it really scares me because it makes me think there is burglars...I'm 10 and scared but I don't know what to do...help!!!

Kai Rose

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   Dear Kai Rose

   
   There is nothing to be embarrassed about! I was like that too, and I still am. What I do is I read a book to forget about it, watch TV or Think about other stuff! When you hear a noise usually its just the floor creaking, natural noises, or even pets. Don't worry!
   
   Hope I helped!
   Daisy

Cakepop's friend - Boy trouble

Dear Daisy,
My friend of mine has a crush on a boy but he already has a Girl friend and she helped his girl friend to talk to her crush in the first stage of their relationship (the girl) and now she realizes that she is madly in love with him!!! but his bff (a boy) is her enemy, and my friend is a really subtle and shy girl!! It's all really complicated!! ;( what should I do/advise her????

Cakepops

1. Dear Cakepops,
   
   Sorry I took forever to reply! Anyways, You can't break them apart. She put them together, and realized after how she felt. You can only wait. That's how it is and im VERY sorry. Maybe you guys could focus on something else besides boys. Like take a trip to the mall or a sleepover. Things like that are fun to do and makes you forget about your worries completely.
   
   Best of luck,
   Daisy

Sopmonkey's DD question for Daisy

Dear Daisy,

I Gotta a question for you why did you leave DD?

Sopmonkey

1. Dear Sopmonkey,

   Sorry I havent been on my blog for a bit. But I didn't, maybe its just that we go on at different times because I always check and comment, Just not as frequently.

   Daisy

How to tell if a guy likes you Sopmonkey

1. Dear Daisy,
   
   How do you tell if a guy likes you
   
   
   Sopmonkey

   
   
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   Dear Sopmonkey,
   
   There is no way to tell if a guy likes you, but there are a few ways. It isn't true all the time though. WARNING: There is no way to 100% understand guys. But here are the basics:
   
   1. He teases you a lot.
   2. He smiles and blushes around you.
   3. When his friends tease him about liking you he will become SUPER defensive ( not mild defensive all guys are defensive at times. )
   4. Find excuses to talk to you
   This is all I have for now, hope I helped!!!
   Daisy

Jamieasa's Boy troubles

Dear Daisy,
I'm back for your AWESOME advice! :D Anyway, there's this dance next Friday. Yesterday, this guy named, uh, let's say Steve, said he knew who Bob (not real name) wanted to go to the dance with. Later that day, Steve was talking to Bob and was like, "Jamieeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeee...". I think I heard Bob telling him to stop but all I did was give them the confused, weirded out look. When I got home from school, I figured that Bob wanted to ask me to the dance. I kept practicing in the mirror how I would say "No.". Then when he asked me at lunch, I got so nervous, freaked out, hesitated, and just blurted out, "What?!" like I didn't hear a single word he said. He responded, "Nothing.". I felt awkward the whole day and I tried my best to ignore it and avoid it. Bob is nice and all but he's... not intelligent. He takes "special" classes and can't really understand things as well as 5th graders could. I don't have any interest in him AT ALL but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do? How should I say it? Should I just ignore and avoid it?

Jamieasa







Dear Jamieasa, 
If he tries to ask you again, just say gently " Bob, I don't really like you that way. I like you more as a friend." and maybe he'll back off. Don't bring up the subject though,he might feel worse. Be nice to him though, who knows, you may make a new friend. ( JUST friends ) Do you not like him because he's not the most intelligent in the world? But since he is in " special " classes, so he may be pretty smart. If not, thats ok. everybody learns at different paces. For now, I would avoid it but not him. Be nice to him but if he brings up the subject just tell him what I said up above. 

Hope I helped!
Daisy

Jamieasa's BFF troubles part 3

Dear Daisy,
Hi! I'm back for your advice! But seriously, you're so good at giving advice! There should be much more comments and questions here! ;) Just wondering how do you put that little page view sign thingy? That wasn't my advice thing, though! Lol. Anywho, sadly, my bff is not in my 5th Grade homeroom class this year but she is in the same class as this girl I really don't like! The mean girl hates me and has been bullying me ever since 1st Grade and my bff is now friends with my enemy which kinda sucks! My bff has once seen my enemy be mean to me but she's still her friend! Since it is bothering me, I wanted to talk to my bff about it but I don't wanna boss her around telling her that I don't want her to be friends with my enemy. I'm afraid my enemy will hurt my best friend and I don't want that to happen! I'm not sure if I should tell her that she's bothering me by being her friend... What should I do?


Jamieasa







Dear Jamieasa,
Thank you! And do you mean like the thing that counts my pageviews? It is a gadget. Anyways, Sorry it took me a while to reply. I have been thinking.... And, I think you should speak to your friend. You can try to invite her over, speak to her privately, talk to her at recess, or basically anytime she's alone. Send her an email or call her you can even send a text. If she decides to ignore you, give her a few days to cool off and make new friends or hang with other friends. Maybe you can find someone to be BFFS with too. Just don't surround her, it might make her back down and take longer. If she doesn't want to be friends again, which would NEVER happen because you are so awesome and amazing, She would have NO absolute idea of what she is missing! Although, from what you described, she doesn't sound like that type. But, now Directly here is what you asked, I think you should tell her you don't trust the bully. But, even if it may bother you a LOT, tell her you don't mind she made other friends but you still want to hang with her too. She may not even know this bothers you. I REALLY hope i helped!!! If this doesn't work, feel free to come back for more help!

Daisy

Jamieasa's bff troubles part 2

Dear Daisy,

Thanks for the help! I tried telling her and all but it just got into a huge fight where we told each other our probs! She doesn't automatically change the subject she just makes it awkward... She's really fun to hangout with and sometimes nice but I'm not sure if I should be bffs with her... we've been bffs for like 4 years until now and shes been super nice except she has those glitches that you dont know you have. Should I still be her bff?

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   Dear Jamieasa,
   

   
   

   Hmm.... Thats tough! I'm sorry! I can't tell you exactly or not if you should stay bff's with one another, But maybe you guys should take a little break and hang with other friends to cool down. Did you get a chance to tell her the whole thing? If not ask if you can have a chance to tell her whats up. But, remember everybody has flaws. If you like everything else about her though, why should one little flaw and disagreement stop you?
   Hope I helped,
   Daisy

Jamieasa's BFF troubles

Dear Daisy,

It seems like whenever I tell my X BFF a problem, she never really cares and just says " ok " or "oh " that's why we're not bffs anymore. We are still friends and all, but what should I do?

Jamieasa


Dear Jamieasa,

If she doesn't seem to care, confront her and say " hey, I feel like you don't care what I'm saying when you say barely anything. " if she still doesn't care she my not be the greatest friend. A friend should really care about how you feel. Like if I was feeling down I wouldn't want my bestie to say " oh... Ok whatever " and start talking about her new shoes. She may not even know your mad or hurt by this. But, I bet there are plenty of girls you can hang with. Who knows, you my find your TRUE best friend!

Daisy

New blog!

You may know my other blog Snowcrystal's awesome blog, But this is my newest blog for my advice to you! :) Anyways, many of you might have troubles or problems. So I created this to help you! I will have a tab to a page where you ask me for advice, everyday when you comment I check it and choose 3 or so to post. Since this blog is new, I might not a few at a time,  probably just one.

Then, I will try to answer them. I really hope if you need advice you come back. Check out my other blog too: Snowcrystalsblog.blogspot.com! :)