It seems like whenever I tell my x BFF a problem, she never really cares and just says, "ok" or "oh" and doesn't even try to comfort me. That's why were not bffs anymore. We are still friends and all but what should I do?
If she doesn't seem to care then confront her and say " hey um, it feels like you don't care about what I'm telling you. " if she still doesn't care, she may not be the greatest friend. A friend should care about how you feel. Like, when I feel down I wouldn't like a friend to say " uh huh... Yeah whatever " and then talk about her awesome new shoes. She may not even know you feel this way. I would try to speak to her first, but if she really doesn't care I bet there are a lot of other girls to hang out with! Who knows you could become best friends for life!!!
Thanks for the help! I tried telling her and all but it just got into a huge fight where we told each other our probs! She doesn't automatically change the subject she just makes it awkward... She's really fun to hangout with and sometimes nice but I'm not sure if I should be bffs with her... we've been bffs for like 4 years until now and shes been super nice except she has those glitches that you dont know you have. Should I still be her bff?
Hmm.... Thats tough! I'm sorry! I can't tell you exactly or not if you should stay bff's with one another, But maybe you guys should take a little break and hang with other friends to cool down. Did you get a chance to tell her the whole thing? If not ask if you can have a chance to tell her whats up. But, remember everybody has flaws. If you like everything else about her though, why should one little flaw and disagreement stop you? Hope I helped, Daisy
Dear Daisy, Hi! I'm back for your advice! But seriously, you're so good at giving advice! There should be much more comments and questions here! ;) Just wondering how do you put that little page view sign thingy? That wasn't my advice thing, though! Lol. Anywho, sadly, my bff is not in my 5th Grade homeroom class this year but she is in the same class as this girl I really don't like! The mean girl hates me and has been bullying me ever since 1st Grade and my bff is now friends with my enemy which kinda sucks! My bff has once seen my enemy be mean to me but she's still her friend! Since it is bothering me, I wanted to talk to my bff about it but I don't wanna boss her around telling her that I don't want her to be friends with my enemy. I'm afraid my enemy will hurt my best friend and I don't want that to happen! I'm not sure if I should tell her that she's bothering me by being her friend... What should I do?
Dear Daisy, I'm back for your AWESOME advice! :D Anyway, there's this dance next Friday. Yesterday, this guy named, uh, let's say Steve, said he knew who Bob (not real name) wanted to go to the dance with. Later that day, Steve was talking to Bob and was like, "Jamieeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeee...". I think I heard Bob telling him to stop but all I did was give them the confused, weirded out look. When I got home from school, I figured that Bob wanted to ask me to the dance. I kept practicing in the mirror how I would say "No.". Then when he asked me at lunch, I got so nervous, freaked out, hesitated, and just blurted out, "What?!" like I didn't hear a single word he said. He responded, "Nothing.". I felt awkward the whole day and I tried my best to ignore it and avoid it. Bob is nice and all but he's... not intelligent. He takes "special" classes and can't really understand things as well as 5th graders could. I don't have any interest in him AT ALL but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do? How should I say it? Should I just ignore and avoid it?
Dear Jamieasa, If he tries to ask you again, just say gently " Bob, I don't really like you that way. I like you more as a friend." and maybe he'll back off. Don't bring up the subject though,he might feel worse. Be nice to him though, who knows, you may make a new friend. ( JUST friends ) Do you not like him because he's not the most intelligent in the world? But since he is in " special " classes, so he may be pretty smart. If not, thats ok. everybody learns at different paces. For now, I would avoid it but not him. Be nice to him but if he brings up the subject just tell him what I said up above.
There is no way to tell if a guy likes you, but there are a few ways. It isn't true all the time though. WARNING: There is no way to 100% understand guys. But here are the basics:
1. He teases you a lot. 2. He smiles and blushes around you. 3. When his friends tease him about liking you he will become SUPER defensive ( not mild defensive all guys are defensive at times. ) 4. Find excuses to talk to you This is all I have for now, hope I helped!!! Daisy
THNX SOO MUCHPS I THINK IM IN NERD LOVE AND ANOTHER QUEStion my friends xfriend spread rumors about here owning a cross with handcuffs necklace i know its not too so what should I do THNX
Sorry I havent been on my blog fo a bit. But I didn't, maybe its just that we go on at different times because I always check and comment, Just not as frequently.
Dear Daisy, My friend of mine has a crush on a boy but he already has a Girl friend and she helped his girl friend to talk to her crush in the first stage of their relationship (the girl) and now she realizes that she is madly in love with him!!! but his bff (a boy) is her enemy, and my friend is a really subtle and shy girl!! It's all really complicated!! ;( what should I do/advise her????
Sorry I took forever to reply! Anyways, You can't break them apart. She put them together, and realized after how she felt. You can only wait. That's how it is and im VERY sorry. Maybe you guys could focus on something else besides boys. Like take a trip to the mall or a sleepover. Things like that are fun to do and makes you forget about your worries completely.
Thx, Daisy!!!! ;) You're a really BIG help!!! Why don't you spread your website on DD? It's really AWESOME here! and you're really kind and considrate!!! :) :D
Hi!I need help with something:please don't laugh: Every night I hearthings downstairs and it really scares me because it makes me think there is burglars...I'm 10 and scared but I don't know what to do...help!!!
Dear Kai Rose, There is nothing to be embarrassed about! I was like that too, and I still am. What I do is I read a book to forget about it, watch TV or Think about other stuff! When you hear a noise usually its just the floor creaking, natural noises, or even pets. Don't worry!
My other best friend Paige,has got a boyfriend...she just pushes us away so se can be with him.we are both ten,so is he (Connor).he puts his arm around her,full tongue-and-lip kissing and all that...she's had hundreds of boyfriends (literally) and I just want her back,our funny,happy friend and the moody,bossy and boy side-tracked girl to go...
I think we should leave her for a few days,so she can realise how much she really needs us and she can then return to us when sense has been knocked into her!!!
Please help us as I'm fearing me and all my other friends are going to lose her!
This annoying girl keeps following me and my friends, and no matter how many times we move away, she keeps following us! She steps into every conversation, and even asked us to give her one of our special friendship bracelets. She cheats, steals your things, lies, brags, is rude, and copies your ideas! We don't want to tell her to go away because we'll feel mean. Also, she cries a lot and easily gets you in trouble. Once, me and my friend wrote a note to each other saying she's cheating again, then the note got around the whole class, so we then explained to her that we wrote the note, and she instantly started crying saying we wrote that note on purpose so she could get in trouble for cheating! We also saw on her hand answers to a test, but she keeps denying she cheated and said her sister wrote it. Help!!!!
It seems like whenever I tell my x BFF a problem, she never really cares and just says, "ok" or "oh" and doesn't even try to comfort me. That's why were not bffs anymore. We are still friends and all but what should I do?
ReplyDeleteIf she doesn't seem to care then confront her and say " hey um, it feels like you don't care about what I'm telling you. " if she still doesn't care, she may not be the greatest friend. A friend should care about how you feel. Like, when I feel down I wouldn't like a friend to say " uh huh... Yeah whatever " and then talk about her awesome new shoes. She may not even know you feel this way. I would try to speak to her first, but if she really doesn't care I bet there are a lot of other girls to hang out with! Who knows you could become best friends for life!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the help! I tried telling her and all but it just got into a huge fight where we told each other our probs! She doesn't automatically change the subject she just makes it awkward... She's really fun to hangout with and sometimes nice but I'm not sure if I should be bffs with her... we've been bffs for like 4 years until now and shes been super nice except she has those glitches that you dont know you have. Should I still be her bff?
ReplyDeleteDear Jamieasa,
ReplyDeleteHmm.... Thats tough! I'm sorry! I can't tell you exactly or not if you should stay bff's with one another, But maybe you guys should take a little break and hang with other friends to cool down. Did you get a chance to tell her the whole thing? If not ask if you can have a chance to tell her whats up. But, remember everybody has flaws. If you like everything else about her though, why should one little flaw and disagreement stop you?
Hope I helped,
Daisy
Dear Daisy,
ReplyDeleteHi! I'm back for your advice! But seriously, you're so good at giving advice! There should be much more comments and questions here! ;) Just wondering how do you put that little page view sign thingy? That wasn't my advice thing, though! Lol. Anywho, sadly, my bff is not in my 5th Grade homeroom class this year but she is in the same class as this girl I really don't like! The mean girl hates me and has been bullying me ever since 1st Grade and my bff is now friends with my enemy which kinda sucks! My bff has once seen my enemy be mean to me but she's still her friend! Since it is bothering me, I wanted to talk to my bff about it but I don't wanna boss her around telling her that I don't want her to be friends with my enemy. I'm afraid my enemy will hurt my best friend and I don't want that to happen! I'm not sure if I should tell her that she's bothering me by being her friend... What should I do?
Dear Daisy,
ReplyDeleteI'm back for your AWESOME advice! :D Anyway, there's this dance next Friday. Yesterday, this guy named, uh, let's say Steve, said he knew who Bob (not real name) wanted to go to the dance with. Later that day, Steve was talking to Bob and was like, "Jamieeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeeeee, Jamieeeeeeee...". I think I heard Bob telling him to stop but all I did was give them the confused, weirded out look. When I got home from school, I figured that Bob wanted to ask me to the dance. I kept practicing in the mirror how I would say "No.". Then when he asked me at lunch, I got so nervous, freaked out, hesitated, and just blurted out, "What?!" like I didn't hear a single word he said. He responded, "Nothing.". I felt awkward the whole day and I tried my best to ignore it and avoid it. Bob is nice and all but he's... not intelligent. He takes "special" classes and can't really understand things as well as 5th graders could. I don't have any interest in him AT ALL but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do? How should I say it? Should I just ignore and avoid it?
Dear Jamieasa,
ReplyDeleteIf he tries to ask you again, just say gently " Bob, I don't really like you that way. I like you more as a friend." and maybe he'll back off. Don't bring up the subject though,he might feel worse. Be nice to him though, who knows, you may make a new friend. ( JUST friends ) Do you not like him because he's not the most intelligent in the world? But since he is in " special " classes, so he may be pretty smart. If not, thats ok. everybody learns at different paces. For now, I would avoid it but not him. Be nice to him but if he brings up the subject just tell him what I said up above.
Hope I helped!
Daisy
How do you tell if a guy likes you
ReplyDeleteSopmonkey
Dear Sopmonkey,
ReplyDeleteThere is no way to tell if a guy likes you, but there are a few ways. It isn't true all the time though. WARNING: There is no way to 100% understand guys. But here are the basics:
1. He teases you a lot.
2. He smiles and blushes around you.
3. When his friends tease him about liking you he will become SUPER defensive ( not mild defensive all guys are defensive at times. )
4. Find excuses to talk to you
This is all I have for now, hope I helped!!!
Daisy
THNX SOO MUCHPS I THINK IM IN NERD LOVE AND ANOTHER QUEStion my friends xfriend spread rumors about here owning a cross with handcuffs necklace i know its not too so what should I do THNX
DeleteI Gotta a question for you why did you leave DD?
ReplyDeleteSorry I havent been on my blog fo a bit. But I didn't, maybe its just that we go on at different times because I always check and comment, Just not as frequently.
DeleteDear Daisy,
ReplyDeleteMy friend of mine has a crush on a boy but he already has a Girl friend and she helped his girl friend to talk to her crush in the first stage of their relationship (the girl) and now she realizes that she is madly in love with him!!! but his bff (a boy) is her enemy, and my friend is a really subtle and shy girl!! It's all really complicated!! ;( what should I do/advise her????
Dear Cakepops,
DeleteSorry I took forever to reply! Anyways, You can't break them apart. She put them together, and realized after how she felt. You can only wait. That's how it is and im VERY sorry. Maybe you guys could focus on something else besides boys. Like take a trip to the mall or a sleepover. Things like that are fun to do and makes you forget about your worries completely.
Best of luck,
Daisy
Thx, Daisy!!!! ;) You're a really BIG help!!! Why don't you spread your website on DD? It's really AWESOME here! and you're really kind and considrate!!! :) :D
ReplyDeleteThank you! :) That means a lot! :)
DeleteHi!I need help with something:please don't laugh:
ReplyDeleteEvery night I hearthings downstairs and it really scares me because it makes me think there is burglars...I'm 10 and scared but I don't know what to do...help!!!
Dear Kai Rose,
DeleteThere is nothing to be embarrassed about! I was like that too, and I still am. What I do is I read a book to forget about it, watch TV or Think about other stuff! When you hear a noise usually its just the floor creaking, natural noises, or even pets. Don't worry!
Hope I helped!
Daisy
I have another problem:
ReplyDeleteMy other best friend Paige,has got a boyfriend...she just pushes us away so se can be with him.we are both ten,so is he (Connor).he puts his arm around her,full tongue-and-lip kissing and all that...she's had hundreds of boyfriends (literally) and I just want her back,our funny,happy friend and the moody,bossy and boy side-tracked girl to go...
I think we should leave her for a few days,so she can realise how much she really needs us and she can then return to us when sense has been knocked into her!!!
Please help us as I'm fearing me and all my other friends are going to lose her!
Love,Kai
This annoying girl keeps following me and my friends, and no matter how many times we move away, she keeps following us! She steps into every conversation, and even asked us to give her one of our special friendship bracelets. She cheats, steals your things, lies, brags, is rude, and copies your ideas! We don't want to tell her to go away because we'll feel mean. Also, she cries a lot and easily gets you in trouble. Once, me and my friend wrote a note to each other saying she's cheating again, then the note got around the whole class, so we then explained to her that we wrote the note, and she instantly started crying saying we wrote that note on purpose so she could get in trouble for cheating! We also saw on her hand answers to a test, but she keeps denying she cheated and said her sister wrote it. Help!!!!
ReplyDelete