Jamieasa's BFF troubles part 3

Dear Daisy,
Hi! I'm back for your advice! But seriously, you're so good at giving advice! There should be much more comments and questions here! ;) Just wondering how do you put that little page view sign thingy? That wasn't my advice thing, though! Lol. Anywho, sadly, my bff is not in my 5th Grade homeroom class this year but she is in the same class as this girl I really don't like! The mean girl hates me and has been bullying me ever since 1st Grade and my bff is now friends with my enemy which kinda sucks! My bff has once seen my enemy be mean to me but she's still her friend! Since it is bothering me, I wanted to talk to my bff about it but I don't wanna boss her around telling her that I don't want her to be friends with my enemy. I'm afraid my enemy will hurt my best friend and I don't want that to happen! I'm not sure if I should tell her that she's bothering me by being her friend... What should I do?


Jamieasa







Dear Jamieasa,
Thank you! And do you mean like the thing that counts my pageviews? It is a gadget. Anyways, Sorry it took me a while to reply. I have been thinking.... And, I think you should speak to your friend. You can try to invite her over, speak to her privately, talk to her at recess, or basically anytime she's alone. Send her an email or call her you can even send a text. If she decides to ignore you, give her a few days to cool off and make new friends or hang with other friends. Maybe you can find someone to be BFFS with too. Just don't surround her, it might make her back down and take longer. If she doesn't want to be friends again, which would NEVER happen because you are so awesome and amazing, She would have NO absolute idea of what she is missing! Although, from what you described, she doesn't sound like that type. But, now Directly here is what you asked, I think you should tell her you don't trust the bully. But, even if it may bother you a LOT, tell her you don't mind she made other friends but you still want to hang with her too. She may not even know this bothers you. I REALLY hope i helped!!! If this doesn't work, feel free to come back for more help!

Daisy

Jamieasa's bff troubles part 2

Dear Daisy,

Thanks for the help! I tried telling her and all but it just got into a huge fight where we told each other our probs! She doesn't automatically change the subject she just makes it awkward... She's really fun to hangout with and sometimes nice but I'm not sure if I should be bffs with her... we've been bffs for like 4 years until now and shes been super nice except she has those glitches that you dont know you have. Should I still be her bff?

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   Dear Jamieasa,
   

   
   

   Hmm.... Thats tough! I'm sorry! I can't tell you exactly or not if you should stay bff's with one another, But maybe you guys should take a little break and hang with other friends to cool down. Did you get a chance to tell her the whole thing? If not ask if you can have a chance to tell her whats up. But, remember everybody has flaws. If you like everything else about her though, why should one little flaw and disagreement stop you?
   Hope I helped,
   Daisy

Jamieasa's BFF troubles

Dear Daisy,

It seems like whenever I tell my X BFF a problem, she never really cares and just says " ok " or "oh " that's why we're not bffs anymore. We are still friends and all, but what should I do?

Jamieasa


Dear Jamieasa,

If she doesn't seem to care, confront her and say " hey, I feel like you don't care what I'm saying when you say barely anything. " if she still doesn't care she my not be the greatest friend. A friend should really care about how you feel. Like if I was feeling down I wouldn't want my bestie to say " oh... Ok whatever " and start talking about her new shoes. She may not even know your mad or hurt by this. But, I bet there are plenty of girls you can hang with. Who knows, you my find your TRUE best friend!

Daisy

New blog!

You may know my other blog Snowcrystal's awesome blog, But this is my newest blog for my advice to you! :) Anyways, many of you might have troubles or problems. So I created this to help you! I will have a tab to a page where you ask me for advice, everyday when you comment I check it and choose 3 or so to post. Since this blog is new, I might not a few at a time,  probably just one.

Then, I will try to answer them. I really hope if you need advice you come back. Check out my other blog too: Snowcrystalsblog.blogspot.com! :)