Saturday, September 15, 2012

Jamieasa's BFF troubles part 3

Dear Daisy,
Hi! I'm back for your advice! But seriously, you're so good at giving advice! There should be much more comments and questions here! ;) Just wondering how do you put that little page view sign thingy? That wasn't my advice thing, though! Lol. Anywho, sadly, my bff is not in my 5th Grade homeroom class this year but she is in the same class as this girl I really don't like! The mean girl hates me and has been bullying me ever since 1st Grade and my bff is now friends with my enemy which kinda sucks! My bff has once seen my enemy be mean to me but she's still her friend! Since it is bothering me, I wanted to talk to my bff about it but I don't wanna boss her around telling her that I don't want her to be friends with my enemy. I'm afraid my enemy will hurt my best friend and I don't want that to happen! I'm not sure if I should tell her that she's bothering me by being her friend... What should I do?


Jamieasa







Dear Jamieasa,
Thank you! And do you mean like the thing that counts my pageviews? It is a gadget. Anyways, Sorry it took me a while to reply. I have been thinking.... And, I think you should speak to your friend. You can try to invite her over, speak to her privately, talk to her at recess, or basically anytime she's alone. Send her an email or call her you can even send a text. If she decides to ignore you, give her a few days to cool off and make new friends or hang with other friends. Maybe you can find someone to be BFFS with too. Just don't surround her, it might make her back down and take longer. If she doesn't want to be friends again, which would NEVER happen because you are so awesome and amazing, She would have NO absolute idea of what she is missing! Although, from what you described, she doesn't sound like that type. But, now Directly here is what you asked, I think you should tell her you don't trust the bully. But, even if it may bother you a LOT, tell her you don't mind she made other friends but you still want to hang with her too. She may not even know this bothers you. I REALLY hope i helped!!! If this doesn't work, feel free to come back for more help!

Daisy

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